Frustrated or Fascinated

During the course of becoming more so that you bring more value and are able to be deserving of more there will be events that occur that can cause frustration. This is to be expected. It even hurts at times, this is to be expected. The masses will get frustrated to the extent that healthy paterns of pursuing there dreams can be interupted if they remain frustrated.

I propose on this morning that instead of being FRUSTRATED you become FASCINATED. Fascination has such a teachable feel to it. If you can imagine getting into the habit of: "What can I learn from this experience?" vs. the all to often "Why is this experience happening to me?" There is a huge difference.

The next time you have the sense that this isn't fair know that you are on the blaming side. The reason fairness is even being considered it is because a preceeding question has occured: "Why is this happening to me?"

The success side would be "this has occured, what can I see in this situation as a lesson I can take from it". It is like my mentor says "you can learn a lot more in your defeats then your wins can ever teach you."

Don't get good at having defeats, learn to get good at owning the lessons in them. It is where wisdom is found.

Joshua Andrus
www.hiresite.info