Ask For 'It'

I have witnessed different ways that people go about getting what they desire. It is interesting that communication techniques of individuals in relationships i.e. passive, passive aggressive, aggressive and assertive play out in all areas of an individuals life.

I enjoyed a very potent demonstration of this last night. I attended a collaborative business meeting. This is an environment that entrepreneurs will go that allows them to request assistance and assist others in attaining not only small goals, but lifelong dreams. The groups buy in was collectively as strong as your own desire to see your dream accomplished.

There is something that happens when a group of individuals come together to genuinely serve one another. The creative force is greater than the individual. More can be accomplished in a few short minutes then in months and years. Doors can open to possiblities that the access to may have been hidden for years. The true spirit of the MASTERMIND appears as Napoleon Hill outlines in his programs.

Even in such environments people are timid and need training in asking for what they want. In fact especially in these environments. This needs to be modeled taught and practiced. The world is abundant full of opportunity and wealth for the asking. The area that I see needs improvement is the asking.

It is respectable when an individual in 30 seconds can introduce themselves, state there purpose and ask for their desires. This is the assertiveness necessary to make 'it' happen. In a group of people who have given their time to assist and are in the attitude of doing so already it makes sense to get to the point quickly.

More then all this combined is the clearity of purpose that can be gained from a practice of I will communicate who I am, my mission I am about, and what area I need assistance. An individual who can do so effectively displays confidence, belief in the accomplishment of the goal, rallies support, and establishes trust the individual trusts in others these three areas.

Joshua Andrus
www.hiresite.info